When choosing a Mistress try the following:
1. Trial and error
This probably would be the best way, but this would be the most expensive. I have a slave who spent over one hundred thousand dollars on Mistresses before he found the Mistress of his dreams. Who was she? You need to ask?
2. Letters or e-mail
This may be one way, however most Mistresses get flooded with tremendous amounts of mail. Therefore they cannot give a good response to your letter like they would like to. Some may, some may not, it is not a sure way
3. Checking various magazines and websites
This is not always a sure way but certainly one of the better ways to
make contact. In the magazines some publications do not take the time
to check adds. They want to sell magazines; they could care less if the
person is real, just as long as they sell magazines. The only way is to
stop this is to write to the magazine when you get ripped off. A lot of
Mistresses mean well but some don't know what they are doing, be careful
of ads. The same thing applies to websites. I would say 80% or more haven’t
a clue what B&D is really about.
4. Physical Appeal
A great body and face are a asset. Qualifications are not based on looks!
If you go to the doctor, do you refuse him because of his looks? You choose
a doctor because of qualifications. Yes, great to have both, but that
is not always necessary. Be leery of non-photo ads, you should know what
your Mistress looks like.
5. Education, Experience & Equipment