As my teens ended, I knew I wanted someone who liked the same  
"kink" as me. I read books, anything BDSM based, and practiced. My poor couch, it was flogged mercilessly. As I became more skilled in the use of my whips, crops, and knots I became confidant in what I wanted in a partner. By adulthood I had acted many partners "dark fantasies" out  but it was still only playing. I wanted more.  

Then by luck or fate my neighbor and I started dating. We became intimate, and surprise! We found out that we both wanted b/d, d/s, s/m in a relationship. We were married (14 years ago) and as the  
saying goes, living happily ever after.  

Now the break down in my house is as follows: 
D/s: d/s in my house centers around the life practical, Jenny (my wife/sub/slave) does not work outside the home. She maintains the home as I like it. She cooks what I want when I say. 

B/d: this comes into play in both areas.  First, she dresses in what I've picked out for the day, her behavior is how I like it, (ranging from prude to slut/whore). She must at all times wear her collar no exception are allowed. Also she must perform any erotic act at any time with whomever I say. 

S/m: this is solely in the erotic play areas, the tortures she must endure and submit completely to. 

FFD