In my previous article
I talked about going to fetish parties, what to get out of it, what happens
there. So to wrap up on the "fetish party" subject here are
some of the most frequent asked questions people have when it comes to
do I find a fetish party?
If there is a fetish store in the city, you can find flyers there or ask
the shop keepers for information. You can also search or ask around on
Q: What can
I expect to see?
People dressed in
a lot of different attires hanging out, drinking and dancing basically
just having a good time.
Q: Is everyone
Some parties has rules
about nudity, but if they don’t I can guarantee that you will see
partial nudity and most likely also nude bodies.
Q: Can I change
at the premises?
A: Yes. Most parties
have a dressing room. Change into your fetish attire and drop all your
belongings in the cloakroom.
Q: Is there
A: Yes. There is one
or more DJ's whose job it is to keep the dance floor busy! Techno and
dance music are very popular. Some DJ's also plays oldies and pop.
Q: Do people
have sexual contact there?
A: Some parties has
rules about sexual play at the premises, but if they don’t I can
guarantee that will see people making out. Many fetish parties have special
places where people can play around. Some hangs out in the "play
room" and the more discrete or wild ones go to the "dark room".
Q: Are there
A: No! There are singles
of both sexes. There are a minor overweight of males, but not much. 60%
males and 40% females is not unusual.
Q: Are people
A: Yes. People extremely
open minded and are very forthcoming towards newcomers. People can be
very staid forward and say things very direct.
Q: What if
I meet a person I know?
A: So what? Then this
person knows "your secret" and you know his or hers! The person
is at the party for the same reasons that you are.
Q: What if
someone takes my picture?
A: Cameras and video
equipment are forbidden at fetish parties. There might be some photographers
at the venue, but they don’t take your picture without asking you
for permission first.
If you have any
question about fetish parties that I did not answer here, please mail
it to me.